What's your type?

So, I was having a conversation today with one of my besties about everything under the sun.  We began to talk about old relationships and the people we have liked or dated in the past.  Then she brought to my attention that I had a "type"!

Now, I never really considered this to be so, but after thinking about it I realized that she was right. Unbeknownst to me I have liked or at least dated the same "type" of guy for as long as I can remember and all this time I wasn't paying attention. or was I?  That explains why certain relationships never worked out or why I didn't give some people the time of day. They just weren't my "type".

I realize now that my "type" or at least the last example of it was all too extreme and it almost got me down. That's over and done with and an adjustment has been made.

So, take time to figure out what your "type" is. Are you like my friend and dates all across the board? I thought I was, but apparently not and it took someone else to point that out to me.  If you can't figure it out for yourself ask a friend who knows you best.  Maybe you need to make an adjustment to the type of person you date.

Take it from me your "type" may not be all they're cracked up to be!!!

Just a season

I know people are in your life for a reason even if it is just for a season. But how do we know which one and when do we find out? when we meet? along the way? or at the end? There are times when they've fulfilled their reason then the signal gets crossed and we try to extend them for another season. Maybe they weren't meant to become a permanent friend. But you keep them around 'cause you don't want to let go. Things start to fall apart and you realize all good things must come to an end, the seasons must change and you can no longer be friends.  Out of your life, just as quick as they came. From the experience I hope that you both gain.....wisdom.....so their season was not in vain.