it's been awhile

It has been awhile since I've posted, it's not that I don't have anything to write about its just that I can't focus long enough to do so. Hopefully, with this long break I have coming up I'll be able to get back to it!

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TRUST

Have you ever wondered if you can truly trust someone?

How do you decide if your going to trust someone?

Is your trust given at the initial meeting or do people have to earn your trust? If so how is it earned?

I'm not really sure where I stand on trust and in the back of my mind I'm always thinking that people are full of it.  I haven't always been this way but I guess that's what happens when you give your trust too freely to people who don't deserve it. 

As it stands now, I'll trust a person a little bit until they give me a reason not to.

I always say....

               "I'll trust a person as far as I can throw them and most people I can barely pick up!"

JUST A LIL SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT...........

It's been too long

It's been almost a year since my last blog post....I have been writing just not posting.  I've mainly been working on poetry just been debating if I should post it or not.  As for now, I'll be posting my random thoughts as they come.

For the next 30 days I am going to ATTEMPT to post something..........lets see how this goes.
ENJOY!

Change

Change is inevitable. We may not always be willing to accept it but in the end, in some way we must overcome, improvise and adapt to the situation. Resistance is futile and it's our unwillingness to change that causes us the most grief.

As a result of change we can grow and learn. Maybe the next time we won't make the same mistakes. Or maybe we will. They say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result. Evaluate your life, what you've been through and see if this I you. Maybe it's time for you to change.

"The only thing constant in the world is change. That's why today I take life as it comes."-India Arie

"Change has a considerable psychological impact on the human mind. To the fearful it is threatening because it means that things may get worse. To the hopeful it is encouraging because things may get better. To the confident it is inspiring because the challenge exists to make things better". - King Whitney jr.


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Let your actions match your words

It's funny how ppl claim to want u in their lives but at the same time u never hear from them. U go days weeks or maybe even months without seeing them and when u do they say "I miss you" or "why don't u ever call me" the thing is communication has always bn a two way street. It only takes a second to let someone know your thinking of them. We have too many ways to communicate now days and there should be no excuses.


I especially hate the above mentioned situation when it's someone who claims to want to be with you. If you really like a person and you want to be with them would you not go out of your way to let them know this? Regardless of how busy you are or where you are why not let them know?


This really baffles me. When I hear this I usually think that person is just full of it. 'cause there actions don't match their words.


If you think you know why people are like this or maybe this explains how u are please comment.




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What's your type?

So, I was having a conversation today with one of my besties about everything under the sun.  We began to talk about old relationships and the people we have liked or dated in the past.  Then she brought to my attention that I had a "type"!

Now, I never really considered this to be so, but after thinking about it I realized that she was right. Unbeknownst to me I have liked or at least dated the same "type" of guy for as long as I can remember and all this time I wasn't paying attention. or was I?  That explains why certain relationships never worked out or why I didn't give some people the time of day. They just weren't my "type".

I realize now that my "type" or at least the last example of it was all too extreme and it almost got me down. That's over and done with and an adjustment has been made.

So, take time to figure out what your "type" is. Are you like my friend and dates all across the board? I thought I was, but apparently not and it took someone else to point that out to me.  If you can't figure it out for yourself ask a friend who knows you best.  Maybe you need to make an adjustment to the type of person you date.

Take it from me your "type" may not be all they're cracked up to be!!!

Just a season

I know people are in your life for a reason even if it is just for a season. But how do we know which one and when do we find out? when we meet? along the way? or at the end? There are times when they've fulfilled their reason then the signal gets crossed and we try to extend them for another season. Maybe they weren't meant to become a permanent friend. But you keep them around 'cause you don't want to let go. Things start to fall apart and you realize all good things must come to an end, the seasons must change and you can no longer be friends.  Out of your life, just as quick as they came. From the experience I hope that you both gain.....wisdom.....so their season was not in vain.